My deepest desire is to inspire more happiness and pleasure in the world. I'm your Tantric sex, love, and relationships coach, breath-worker, and public speaker. I'm also the founder of the "Selfishly Happy Revolution" and host the "Tantric Sex for Lovers and Others" Podcast. I definitely didn't get here overnight though. In fact, quite the opposite... Here’s a confession: I didn’t always believe that pleasure was my birthright. To be quite honest, I suffered from a burn-out and had PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder) from a cycling accident. But, there was this part of me that kept wondering if things could be different. It kept nagging me to find out how to be fully alive again! As a single mother of three and a recovering Green political leader who worried about climate change and the state of this beautiful planet, it wasn’t easy… Little by little, I learned to put myself first and foremost, so that I’d have more to give to my family and to the world. Just like they say on airplanes: “Put your oxygen mask first before helping others.” I learned to become a “Selfishly Happy” the hard way. It is my passion now to help others - so that YOU can have it easier, regardless of your gender. A few fun facts: *I’m Finnish and have got a true Nordic liberal upbringing: I grew up thinking that nakedness is natural (I mean, all those saunas... There are more saunas in Finland per capita than cars). *I built an eco-house in Finland and had 10 turkeys, 7 sheep, 3 dogs, 3 kids and 1 husband. I still have the kids. *I was sent to the United Nations by the Finnish Foreign Office and pretended to give a speech to an empty hall on that famous podium - a true photo opportunity for a politician (or for that grinning inner 7-year old...), isn't it?! *Now that my children are all adults, I've become a Digital Nomad travelling the world. You might catch some of my not-so-professional sunset photos on Instagram every now and then...